Tensions are rising and trust is being tested in the latest twist inside the Big Brother house, as housemates Dede and Mide find themselves entangled in what they believe is a calculated mind game. The drama unfolded when Mide expressed her growing suspicion that a fellow housemate, presumably Kola might be manipulating emotions and communication to stir confusion and doubt among the group.
In a candid conversation, Mide shared her theory: “He’s not talking to me too. He wants me to tell you that he’s giving me attitude so we’ll feel like, ‘omg, what have we done, dra dra dra.’” Her words hinted at a deliberate ploy to pit allies against each other by using silence and selective attitude as tools of psychological manipulation.
Dede, visibly shocked, questioned, “With me??” before gradually processing Mide’s interpretation. Despite the confusion, Dede stood firm in her belief that the distance wasn’t personal. She recalled an earlier moment when she confronted the housemate, only to be met with indifference. “‘Are you ready to talk now?’ I asked. He replied, ‘You know what Dede, I don’t think there’s a need for conversation.’”
Here's the conversation between Mide and Kola:
Mide: I feel like this thing is even a mind game he wants to give, that’s what Kola and these other people are saying. He’s just playing a mind game.
Dede: With me??
Mide: With us. He’s not talking to me too. He wants me to tell you that he’s giving me attitude so that we’ll feel like, “omg, what have we done, dra dra dra.”
Dede: It couldn’t be trust me, it couldn’t be. I feel like yesterday he had something to say until I asked him, “Are you ready to talk now?” and he was like, “You know what Dede, I don’t think there’s a need for conversation.” But trust me, he knows that I will not come around like we literally were before. ‘Cause what’s bad fish?
Is it fish?
Mide: Especially when you know the way...
Mide: Especially when you know the way Ebuka can say things.
C’mon, I don’t do that. He knows the purpose of saying those things is to rally an emotion from you, and you’re giving it. You know you’re not daft, then all of a sudden you now become the victim.
Dede: Why are you mad? You keep saying that you didn’t have any emotions towards me, so why are you mad about me calling you fish? I do get how Kola feels, right? he’s always been emotional from day one. But you...
Mide: I told Kola that Koyin is her best friend and you and Jason had an understanding. He knows there’s nothing there for him. He even has a girlfriend outside that he talks about.
Dede: The thing is, I feel like I literally friendzoned him so much that he just had to start living up to it.
Stay tuned✅
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